First, I kow selve is spelled wrong, but it looks more like twelve.
Second, I have to give credit to my sister Cammy. She came up with it.
We were all sitting around at 11:50 talking about our New Years Resolutions. I had not firmly established mine up until that point, but then I came up with a brilliant idea - NO RESOLUTIONS! None! Not one! Nothing I'm going to work on! Nothing I'm going to try and improve! Nothing for me to focus on!
Let me give you a little background. Last New Years we sat around a table, passed around the Cokta, and made resolutions. I had 8 of them - all of which I intended to keep. On January 30, I was looking at that bottle and I realized that I had only done one of them, and that one I had to cram in December to accomplish!
I also realized that all these goals that I set just make me focus on myself more. It's one more thing I have to do, one more thing to concentrate on ME.
So, no more! When I look back on 2012 there will be no guilt, no disappointment and hopefully, a whole lot more focusing on others.
Now, I will still go to Ethiopia. I will still take Tony Dungy's challenge to spend time every day with God. I will still do the Healthy Eating Challenge with my class and I will join Jeff Wayne in listening to my wife. But, those aren't my goals.
My goal in 2012 is to think less of myself. But it's not a goal, it's not a resolution. That would ruin my whole plan!
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